Can a man get off without somehow objectifying the object of his desire? To know and love a woman is one thing, but to bust a nut into her cunt day in and day out takes something more. It takes something mental. What’s going on inside that man brain that gets you off?
These are the deep philosophical questions a sex worker must be able to assess so I can profile my johns quickly to turn a trick as fast as possible. But to love a partner for years, or even decades? That takes concentration of a sort that is hard to come to grips with. What could possibly be bouncing around inside any man’s head that would make his cock hard for the same pussy over and over? It’s one of those miracles we forget to stop and ponder. The hard cock of the faithfully married man. Where does it come from? Usually the very tip where the hole is, of course, but I digress.
Many a hard cock comes from an excited mind that feels that it is gaining the upper hand. A cock loves tipping the scales in its favor so that it might get laid. The sexual dance between a man and woman is difficult. It is the woman’s role to not give it away. A man must first court the woman, dine her, bring her to movies, shows, and one can never tell when the whole affair will come tumbling down. After all his time, money, investment and effort, the man may never get laid. That’s where sex workers like me come in. Through the tip, where the hole is. Yeah, I know. That gets stupider each time I say it.
When a fella dates a lady and picks up on some vibe that he might get lucky, he gets excited. The more signals he picks up on, the more excited he will get. The hard to get woman excites him whether it’s a young girl he’s dating, or a busy wife or mom he’s been married to for years. The obstacles give him the push to get through the pressure and once and for all fuck that bitch. The release feels good. She yields and he can finally exert his power and fully take her. It is the pressure cooker that builds up steam, and then our vulnerabilities open the doorways to keeping a marriage exciting. You give your man power when you finally fall into his arms regressed as his little girl and let him take you. Let go. Letting go feels good!
